#35: Great Expectations
Expectations play a significant role in dating, and they can either enhance or hinder the experience. In this story, the person’s date expressed surprise and discomfort upon discovering her intelligence halfway through the date. This reaction demonstrated a mismatch in expectations and highlighted the importance of open communication before and during a date.
Ideally, dating should involve mutual respect and an appreciation for each other’s qualities and attributes. Both individuals need to be comfortable and confident in their skin while also being receptive to each other’s differences and strengths. Effective communication can help prevent misunderstandings and awkward moments in the dating process.