#3: The Etiquette of Video Conferencing
In the digital age, the era of video conferencing has become an indispensable tool for professional communication. However, as I embarked on three consecutive Zoom calls with video enabled, a novel problem began to unravel. It dawned on me that the dynamics of these video encounters closely mirrored those of FaceTime, prompting me to ponder the etiquette surrounding their usage, particularly in a work-related context. I concluded that, in a professional setting, it would be judicious for all participants to opt to turn off their video feeds unanimously. The rationale behind this choice was rather pragmatic. I must admit that maintaining my domicile in a perpetually pristine state is a challenge that eludes me. Hence, I am reluctant to grant random colleagues an unfiltered glimpse into my inner sanctum.
Yet, the issue extends beyond mere aesthetics. During those three video calls, I was trapped in an endless loop of self-monitoring. I was perpetually vigilant, ensuring that my visage did not inadvertently betray signs of boredom or eye-rolling in response to discussions. It seemed that every fleeting thought I harbored was inscribed upon my countenance. Consequently, I was compelled to wear a frozen mask that broadcasted a constant message of “I am here, I am engaged, and your insights are indeed astute.” The alternative, I feared, would involve inadvertently revealing my unfiltered thoughts on the latest concepts being bandied about, a scenario best avoided in professional circles.